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Life & Relationships
> Sex Advice
Do you need Sex Advice?
It seems that everyone is looking for sex advice
these days. How do I make it better? How do I get my partner to do
what I want them to do? How do I tell my partner I don’t like
something they do? Maybe instead of seeking out sex advice from
others it’s time to learn how to effectively communicate with your
partner. Without communication you will never get anywhere and all
the advice in the world won’t help if you aren’t talking with your
partner.
Every couple goes through a period of learning
about the other and this time is crucial to the relationship and
to the health of your sex life. If you both learn to communicate
your wants and needs effectively and in a non-critical manner you
will find that you are able to enjoy for years to come.
In order to avoid hurt feelings when your partner
is doing something you don’t really enjoy don’t push them away or
say something negative, instead suggest something else or guide
them to an area that you prefer. They will figure out by your
response which you prefer. If your partner is simply not doing
something that you really want them to do bring it up in a way
that is non-confrontational. Instead of saying “You never do”
phrase it more like “I would like for us to try”. How you word
something can make all of the difference.
Sex is intended to be enjoyed and if you are not
enjoying your sex life you may not need to seek advice from an
outside source you may just want to give a little well worded sex
advice to your partner and of course always be open to your
partners suggestions as well. Sex advice can only go so far if you
aren’t listening to one another and open minded to the suggestions
being put forth by your partner. Play, love and learn together to
create the most loving and exciting relationship possible for the
both of you.
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