Know When to Call it Quits

Though it is difficult to trace the exact point at which breakup happens in a relationship, you can sense that you are about to call it quits. Here are a few signs that harbinger the end of relationships.

• When you and your spouse feel distant from each other and feel there is nothing common to communicate with each other. Both of you ponder over the things yourself and silence prevails at home.

• You feel you are not missing your partner even if he is away from you for days. In the worst situation, you feel relieved when he is away from you.

• You get closer to your children more and more and try to make them distant from your partner. You try to induce negative feelings about your partner indirectly in order to justify yourself for not being responsible for the damage in the relationship.

• You get bored of sex, and avoid him in bed pretending illness or other physical problems.

• You feel you are ignored by your partner or humiliated by him in bed.

• You both get fussy over trivial issues. This tendency can be viewed as a channel to vent out the anger on each other. In some families children are found to be the sufferers.

• You tend to argue with him on everything. Though you know that you are doing it without any purpose, you are not ready to give up.

The most serious reason for the failure of relationships is infidelity. The moment you feel suspicious about your partner, the count down of your relationship begins. The best way to avoid such situation is to avoid the consequences that lead to such situations. If you come to know that your husband keeps an extra-marital affair at office, try to find out the depth of the relationships. It is unnecessary to worry about it if it is not a serious affair. On the other hand, if you know that things are getting worse day by day, and you cannot tolerate it, open your heart and share your feeling with the concerned people and try out the solution. Divorce should be opted as the last solution.

It is difficult to change the attitude of your partner once he is involved in a relationship. Moreover, you will carry his infidelity forward in your future life and will try to attack him with that sword whenever you get a chance. The best possible way to avoid such things happen in your life is to understand your partner in each step of his life. Try to talk to him as freely as possible. Pour him with your love so that he does not find it from the wrong source.

Maintaining a relationship is much easier than repairing an affected relationship.