Is He Faithful? 5 Ways to Learn the Truth

February 12, 2014May 25, 2014 dotcomwomen

You thought you’d reached your happily ever after. However, things have changed between you and your significant other, and something’s different even if you can’t quite put your finger on it. If you’re worried about whether or not your partner is cheating, don’t confront him right away.If he is cheating he’ll just lie and say he isn’t, and if he isn’t, he’ll feel hurt that you accused him when he’s innocent. Instead, do a little detective work and reach out to those who can help you uncover the truth.

Consult an Expert

Too many women and men keep their suspicions about a cheating partner bottled up inside, where it causes stress and poor health. You don’t have to fight this battle alone. Consult a psychic and see what the first half of the year has in store for you. Your spiritual advisor can consult the spiritual realm to see the truth hidden behind your partner’s actions and can tell you if a big confrontation over infidelity is going to happen to you early this year. She’ll know whether or not your relationship will survive. Regardless, she’ll be in your corner, coaxing and guiding you to a happier, more stable relationship.

Gauge His Tone of Voice

Short of a polygraph test, simply paying attention to your significant other’s tone of voice may give you some indication. According to LiveScience, men suddenly speaking in a lower tone of voice than usual and women speaking in a higher tone of voice — especially when confronted with uncomfortable questions – are more likely to be lying than those who speak normally.

Don’t ask your partner about possible infidelity right away, but do pay attention to his voice when you ask him about anything, like plans you might make together or what he’s been up to at work if a job has been keeping him “very busy.”

Consider How Often He’s Away

The first indication that your loved one isn’t being faithful is that he spends more time away from you. While some infidelity is emotional or done though video cameras online, most of the time, your loved one has to be away from you entirely to meet with a mistress. A cheating significant other might:

Have to work late at work or even work during the weekends for long periods when he didn’t often before
Spend more time meeting with friends than usual
Be called on many sudden business trips
Keep his phone and computer activity private

These behaviors alone don’t indicate infidelity, but your spiritual advisor may be able to give you a better idea of what they mean in your individual case.

Investigate Suspicious Purchases

If you get a statement in the mail and notice your partner has opened up a bank account or a credit card in his own name without consulting you, he may be purchasing things for his mistress or funding his trips to see her with these secret accounts. Pay attention to a sudden decrease in income coming into your shared accounts, which will be especially odd if he claims he’s working overtime more than ever.

Watch for Sensitivity

Observe whether or not your partner is more sensitive and upset than usual. A simple statement that he’s been working too hard and you’d like to do something this weekend together may result in him becoming defensive and even angry, even though you haven’t said anything about infidelity or indicated that you doubt his story that he’s busy with work. Bringing up pleasant memories you had together may make him retreat or even tell you to stop talking about them.

Relationships can last and even get stronger after a breach of trust. Still, a spiritual advisor may be just the person you need to guide you to a big change in your life, if that’s what you need. Your true soulmate may be out there — someone who would never cheat on you, or even give you reason to suspect he’s unfaithful. Your spiritual advisor will be able to tell you if fighting to save the relationship or moving on is what’s best for you — and give you the strength to pursue either path.

About the Author

Georgia Olsen is a relationship counselor and blogger on spiritual living. She recommends www.psychiccosmos.com to all of her clients who need direction and who are struggling to uncover the truth.