How to be Single and Happy
If you’ve recently come out of a relationship, you might be feeling overwhelmed at the idea of being single again. However, it is possible to enjoy being single and to make the most of what life has to offer. Here is some advice on how to be happy by yourself.
Plan your life the way you want
One thing no one tells you about being in a relationship is that it’s far harder to do things the way you want. However great it is being with someone else, there’s a lot to be said for being accountable to no one. Think about the kind of life you’d like to live and dream big – you don’t have to make room for anyone else.
Don’t waste time on envy
Television shows and films are not famous for their accuracy when it comes to romantic relationships. Even in real life the happiest-looking couples have their share of difficulties. There are plenty of arguments, bad habits and simmering tensions which aren’t worthy of your envy. Save your time and energy and put your jealous feelings to bed.
Take up a new hobby
When you give up desperately seeking a relationship you’ll be amazed at what you’ll have room for. Take an evening class, get some exercise or start working on a cool hobby like painting or learning a language. Pretty soon you’ll be the envy of all your friends, coupled up and single, for your cool lifestyle.
Count your blessings
It’s a total cliché but it’s easy to get caught up in our own misfortunes when there are others who have things so much worse. Have a good look at your opportunities and give some thought to the ones you might be wasting – there’s always lots to get involved with. (Note: If you’re experiencing persistent low moods, don’t be afraid to seek help from your doctor or a counselor).
Enjoy your own company
Don’t be fooled by mobile phone companies and social media websites – it is OK to enjoy your own company! In actual fact, it can be very beneficial. Don’t feel pressured into being with other people at all times – it’ll make you stronger and happier to be by yourself once in a while. However, if you do feel like getting back out there and meeting someone new, online dating through a site such as eHarmony.com could be a good option for you.
Go out alone
Being single is a great chance to enjoy how other people perceive you without worrying about hurting anyone’s feelings. Enjoy going out, flirting and maybe dating if the opportunity comes up. It can be fun to meet lots of different people during your time between relationships.
See your friends and family
Make sure to keep up with old friends or travel to visit those you haven’t had time to see. The beauty of being single is that you can go where you want, whenever you want. Treat yourself to a few weekends away and have a good catch up with the people you like the most.
