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My long-term boyfriend has got this new thing for sex in strange places! He won’t have sex with me anymore unless it’s in a strange place!

Problem: My long-term boyfriend has got this new thing for sex in strange places! I didn’t mind at first. We needed to spice-up or sex life anyway. It was even fun - from a library to a Burger King bathroom … we’ve done it everywhere. The problem is … he won’t have sex with me anymore unless it’s in a strange place.

Francis' Solution: At every point in a long-term relationship couples feel the need to spice up their sex life. There’s nothing wrong with that! …. except that when the ‘spicing-up’ itself becomes the new routine, then you’ve clearly defeated the point!

Suggest to him that you limit the ‘sex around town’ to once a month so that it remains exactly what it is – something different.

Francis Deacon.
Relationship expert for the International dating site www.cupidbay.com